*Catching Up*

Holy Hearts and Shamrocks, Batman! It’s March!

Life’s been lifin’, so it’s been a while, kids. I think I’ll start with our latest museum visit and promise to catch up on reading, watching, and places we’ve been in posts I’ll get out to you soon.

I’m looking out the window right now and the trees are swaying and dancing, like fans at a Springsteen concert! It’s uber windy out there, so no walking at the park today. We did some miles on the treadmill at the gym this morning.

Yesterday morning, we managed to get out to our first writer’s meeting of the year (we were sick in January, then a downtown parade blocked our path in February ~ yes, we might have gotten there through back streets but… we didn’t 😊). So glad we got there today. Elle Jauffret, former lawyer and current mystery writer, gave an excellent talk on finding the “spine” of your book (the dramatic question that must be answered), how to keep that question top of mind throughout the story, and how to integrate different genres together organically.

I bought her first book, Threads of Deception, and she was delightful to talk to as she signed it. Then I came home and bought the ebook (on sale for $1.99 right now!) of the second in her trilogy, Cosplayed to Death.

After the beta reader critiques of the book I’m working on that I mentioned in my last post, I decided I had to write an origin story for my main character, Sugar. I needed to know the reason she waited until she was 33 to engage with Seekers ~ spirits who approached her for help ~ so that I could deepen her character and, also help readers understand why she’s undertaking the challenge of solving a murder. It’s taken me from October til now to write twelve pages… As I said, life been lifin’, and that’s part of it, but a bigger part is that it’s always been scary for me when people have been positive about my work, which they were. In addition to the imposter syndrome that set off, I also know that this, hopefully, final revision is going to be complicated and time-consuming. Some writers love the rewriting stage. I’m not one of them ~ LOL!

Our latest museum visit took us to The Muckenthaler Cultural Center in Fullerton, CA. Their current exhibit is mixed media art inspired by Peanuts, executed by Tom Everhart, an artist who worked with Charles Schultz and was granted license to use the Peanuts characters in his art. The Muckenthaler mansion has been an exhibit space for decades and several rooms in the museum area still retain original fixtures and furnishings. The Peanuts Collection will be on display through May 1.

Here are some highlights:

Couldn’t we all use a hug!

The first of two amazing fireplaces. PS It was me that was off kilter, not the floor, LOL!

Another fireplace.

A vintage high chair.

Below one of my favorite artworks is a niche in the wall holding another piece of art ~ I’m thinking that’s a permanent little quirk of the mansion.

I’m including a couple of close-ups of this piece because I thought the techniques were very cool.

This close up looks like a skeleton overlay on the gown.

The technique used for the leaf-like splotches is reminiscent of a vintage spin art machine I had as a kid.

Dramatic Husband.

Happy Wife.

A beautiful original stained glass window from the mansion.

The original concept of Snoopy.

What have you all been up to? Let us know in the comments.

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Hilbert Pastels and Watercolors

Not much to say—just wanting to add a little beauty to your day!

But first, before our trip to the museum, author and creative writing professor David Sandner spoke at our California Writers Club this Saturday. He specializes in weird – a word popularized from Shakespeare’s Weird sisters, taken from the Anglo-Saxon wyrd meaning fate or destiny – and has written several historical fantasy and sci-fi books. His talk about adding weirdness and fantastical elements to our writing was interesting but he was much more animated during the Q&A session, especially when he discussed the historical aspects of his book, His Unburned Heart, based on the true story of Mary Shelley’s determination to retrieve her husband, Percy Shelley’s, heart from his publisher after his cremation. Speaking of historical accuracy and understanding, he also talked about the fact that, until a few hundred years ago when capitalism and democracy collided to challenge humanity, people did not have any discernable control over their lives. Capitalism allowed people to break out of their predestined roles and caste systems to become entrepreneurs and move up the ladder of wealth and respect, and democracy gave them the freedom to have a say in the way their leaders governed over their everyday lives. 

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Thursday Thoughts ~ August 7, 2025

Happy Sugar Diamonte’s Birthday Eve!

Sugar Diamonte is the main character in my cozy mystery series. Her birth date is 8/8/88, the same day I started the best job I ever had, at The Pennysaver, a weekly print advertising mailer in Southern California. I worked there for 27 years with the finest group of accounting folks that became family, many of them employed there as long or longer than me. It’s my little homage to them and our time together, giving Sugar a birth date so close to my heart.

Sugar looks like Sandra Bullock in While You Were Sleeping and a pivotal scene in the book unfolds at a movie theatre after she and her neighbor, Maybelle, see The Lost City.

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Thursday Thoughts ~ July 10, 2025

Thursdays come fast and furious!

It’s been a busy, yet frustrating week. We had an appointment to have The Husband’s VW bus picked up for donation on Sunday. Understand, this is a very emotional situation ~ he’s had this vehicle for 31 years and it’s hard for him to see it go. So, we’d been gearing up for Sunday, nervous and stressed. We sat for hours, waiting for the towing company, who we couldn’t contact on a Sunday… Actually, couldn’t contact at all… they never showed. Since then, we’ve been calling the auction house that claimed the bus and they’ve been as frustrated as us. Now we have an appointment for pick up (hopefully not the same towing company as the first appointment…) for later today. I’ll tell you how that turns out next week. Think good thoughts for us!!

Lots of pictures this week!

First, on Fourth of July morning, we visited the Fullerton Train Museum. It’s been one of those things, when you hear about something interesting in your local area but just never get around to visiting. I happened to see on Facebook that the museum would be open special hours on the Fourth, and since we had no plans, why not? It was about time, really!

This is right next to the train station in Fullerton.

First Class lounge

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 12, 2025

It’s Thursday again! Time flies, whether you’re having fun or not.

On Saturday, The Husband and I went to our monthly California Writers Club meeting at the picturesque Anaheim Packing House. It reminds me of my years with The Bead Society of Orange County – meeting in a beautiful place, with socializing, a few minutes of club business, then a speaker of interest. This month’s guest was Daniel Weizmann, author of the Pacific Coast Highway Mystery series, talking about his W.H.O.C.A.R.E.S writing method. I took a lot of good notes and also got his excellent PDF to work from.

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