Friday Fancies ~ July 3, 2026

Happy Fourth of July Eve.

I don’t think I’m in the minority when I say the 250th anniversary of our great American experiment is not hitting with the joy and fervor it deserves. I was 20 in 1976 and the celebration of our 200th birthday was met with all the genuine patriotism, fanfare, and love our little hearts could pump out. A red, white, and blue, flag waving, year-long party. Tall ships in Boston Harbor. Hour long fireworks displays. Politics raged on but didn’t dampen our collective spirits.

But here we are, in 2026, a nation divided. I read a newsletter today by artist Danielle Coke Balfour (Oh Happy Dani) that included her timely illustration:

I think MLK’s quote is especially relevant today. The rights we have been guaranteed in writing are in jeopardy and we simply want “what you said on paper” to be upheld and honored for all Americans. It’s that simple.

I hope my fellow US citizens have an enjoyable day of appreciation for the country we are meant to be.

Writing

Of course, I found something else to check in The Bonus Grave before I start the line edits… I wanted to make sure I’d added enough backstory for Sugar, my main character. I went through the manuscript and notated all the information I included through four revisions – by the time you get to that many revisions, you have no idea what you added, changed or didn’t change – and now I just have to go over those notes. I promise, next week I’ll be reporting on the progress of the LINE EDITS!!! LOL!

Sisters in Crime is currently running their Summer Scrawl, a writing program for the month of July. I’m not organized enough at this point to declare an actual project to track through the month, but I am planning to participate in some of their write-ins – hour long writing sprints on Zoom. They sponsor 5 or 6 a day, so there’s plenty of opportunity to sit down and get some work done with my mystery peeps.  We shall see!

Reading

I’m always reading a paper book and an ebook on my phone at all times. Once in a while, both books will feature similar elements central to the stories. This week, The Summer Share’s female main character has been traveling in a VW van for five years, making her living posting about her adventures. In Jenny James is Not a Disaster, the FMC takes an unexpected journey in a motorhome and begins a successful online blog. And dogs figure heavily in each book (Dude, a Harlequin great dane, in The Summer Share and Betty, a dachshund, in Jenny James).

Why I read them: I love both authors – Jenn McKinlay (TSS) and Debbie Johnson (JJINAD). They always have main characters who, if they’re not strong already, become strong as the story puts them through the tortures of life.

Plot:

The Summer Share: Hannah and Simon think they’ve inherited a cottage from their respective grandfathers but in reality, they’ve only inherited half each, with the stipulation that they spend two months there before deciding what to do with the property. Naturally, one wants to sell, the other doesn’t. Both co-owners have their reasons but despite the friction this causes, sparks fly.

Jenny James is Not a Disaster: I sometimes find it difficult to make my characters miserable but Debbie Johnson does not shy away from complicating her characters lives. Within the first chapter, Jenny loses her job and car, then her cottage literally falls into the sea! When given the chance to grab her 18-year-old son, Charlie, and the few meager possessions she has left in the world and travel around England in the motorhome of handsome yet troubled neighbor, Luke, well, who wouldn’t say a resounding YES to that?

What I liked: The vulnerability of the four main characters of these books, revealed slowly throughout the stories, deal with family drama, frustrations, and heartbreak. Jenny James was particularly tough to read – my mother went no contact with her family for a number of years when I was young – and seeing Jenny navigate her situation resulted in quite an emotional journey. But these books showcase many joyful moments as well, with casts of lovely characters, both two and four legged – the birth of baby turtles in the Outer Banks (TSS), wild swimming and talking under the stars (JJINAD) – among the various traumas and discoveries of love.

Both books are highly recommended summer reads, whether you prefer a sunny beach chair or a recliner in air conditioning.

Streaming/Watching

You’ll need to break out the Kleenex for this one!

Voicemails for Isabelle refers to messages that Jill sends to her recently deceased sister, Izzy. Meant only to ease her own grief, they end up being received by Wes on his new work phone in Austin, Texas. Intrigued by Jill’s outsized personality, Wes engineers a meeting in San Francisco, where she’s working for an arrogant chef. They hit it off but of course Wes’s manipulation of the situation hovers over the couple, like a guillotine blade. Meanwhile, Jill is dealing with her unsatisfying job and Wes faces his own complicated feelings about commitment. When the poop finally hits the fan, both Jill and Wes need to take leaps of faith.

Parts of this story are so heartbreakingly emotional! But other parts are absolutely joyous. Zoey Deutch, the daughter of Lea Thompson, plays Jill with such humor and humanity. I realized she was also the lead in Something from Tiffany’s, one of my top rom-com picks for Best Chemistry – I often find chick flicks fun but zero on the chemistry scale. I don’t know if it’s her as an actress or just the quality movies she gets cast in, but Voicemails for Isabelle also had lovers with immense chemistry. The peripheral characters, particularly her parents and his close friends, added to the overall comfy feel of this film. Highly recommended!

Be kind to yourselves and each other. Till next week!

Friday Fancies ~ June 26, 2026

Yikes! We’re almost to the middle of the year!!

After a live theater drought, we had two Sundays in a row at local live theatres.

I mentioned seeing The Book of Will at the Curtis on our anniversary. It’s about Shakespeare’s friends attempting to publish a folio of his plays.

I bought my complete Shakespeare, including the sonnets, on a teenage trip to Stratford-upon-Avon but I never stopped to think how the plays had been compiled. Turns out there wasn’t an equivalent to Samuel French, the company that publishes plays currently, in the 1600’s, so the scripts had to be gathered from actors and producers, and a search launched for a publisher willing to take a gamble on a fancy book of plays. Filled with love and loss, the most excellent cast gave us a lovely afternoon of theatre.

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 18, 2026

Happy Juneteenth Eve! Oh, how I wish I could be at the opening of the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago tomorrow to see this portrait in person!!

The Obama’s with Njideka Akunyili Crosby, portraitist.

The Husband and I celebrated our 46th anniversary last Sunday. Being married this long creates such an enduring, varied, emotional, amazing history. You think 24 is all grown up, but really, we were such kids! Had a nice lunch at the Stonefire Grill, then saw the play, The Book of Will, at the Curtis Theatre in Brea, CA.

Us kids! Then…

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Delightful Book Mail!

I haven’t been so delighted with a mail delivery since Amazon sent me an order in a Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-themed box!

In early June, Edward Underhill, a trans author whose books I love, announced in his newsletter that he would be signing pre-orders of his newest book, The House of Now and Then, through Scribbles Bookshop, a signed copies only romance book store. I was bummed because I’d already pre-ordered it during a Barnes & Noble 25% off pre-order sale (raise your hand if you, too, keep a pre-order list in your phone…). But he went on to say that he’d also be signing all of his backlist. YAY!!! I own all of his previous books in paper, except his first book, Always the Almost, a queer YA story, which I’d gotten as an ebook, so I went from bummed to stoked in two seconds flat!

Yes, I really do get this excited over books 😊

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 11, 2026

To all you Knott’s Berry Farm afficionado’s, Happy Ghost Town Alive Eve! IYKYK.

Once again, I’m initiating a once a week blog. They may be a bit shorter than before… And they might not be on the same day… We’ll see. I’m retired, therefore being on a schedule is not mandatory anymore LOL! But I do miss documenting all the stories in my life ~ my own, my writing, and other peoples’ writing and entertainment. So, here we go!

Beautiful flowers on our neighborhood walk.

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Bunches of Bubbles!

I would have sworn I wrote about this last year but I see no proof of this…

I love bubbles!!

After I dispense dish washing liquid onto a sponge, I squeeze the plastic container and shoot bubbles all over the kitchen. I currently have two tiny tubes of bubble juice and wands on the kitchen counter given as favors at a baby shower we attended in February. I use them when I need a lift or want to mess with the cat, LOL. Bubbles have always fascinated and delighted me.

So, why did it take me so long to buy tickets to the annual Bubblefest show at Discovery Cube in Santa Ana? For years, I would see the skyscraper-sized ads on the side of the Cube, beckoning me. You know how it is, though… you’ll get around to it someday. Well SOMEDAY was last year. And even though we were outnumbered by kids and surrounded by loudness from screaming and music, this curmudgeon loved it! And went back again for more this year.

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First Date Anniversary #48!!

Anybody else out there celebrate the anniversaries of your first date? We’ve celebrated all except one – I don’t recall what was going on that year, but I was gutted to realize we’d missed it. I mean, it’s exactly two weeks after The Husband’s birthday… I guarantee, we’ve never missed it since!

The Husband and I met during an acting class we attended on Hollywood Boulevard. Poor, young 20-somethings, we chose the Howard Johnson’s restaurant down the street for our first date. Below, is a picture (couldn’t find a photographer to credit) that I believe to be the actual restaurant, torn down years ago, because it was right near the Capitol Records building. And that was the beginning of our Happily Ever After!

PS-I had a tuna melt and I still own the outfit I wore that night. ‘Course, it will never fit me again ~ LOL!

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*Catching Up*

Holy Hearts and Shamrocks, Batman! It’s March!

Life’s been lifin’, so it’s been a while, kids. I think I’ll start with our latest museum visit and promise to catch up on reading, watching, and places we’ve been in posts I’ll get out to you soon.

I’m looking out the window right now and the trees are swaying and dancing, like fans at a Springsteen concert! It’s uber windy out there, so no walking at the park today. We did some miles on the treadmill at the gym this morning.

Yesterday morning, we managed to get out to our first writer’s meeting of the year (we were sick in January, then a downtown parade blocked our path in February ~ yes, we might have gotten there through back streets but… we didn’t 😊). So glad we got there today. Elle Jauffret, former lawyer and current mystery writer, gave an excellent talk on finding the “spine” of your book (the dramatic question that must be answered), how to keep that question top of mind throughout the story, and how to integrate different genres together organically.

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RELAX!!!

There are plenty of reasons to kick 2025 to the curb ~ heinous politics, health issues, book not published ~ but we also went to the first protests we’d ever participated in, made enjoyable use of our annual passes to the Discovery Cube, saw our friend, Robb Tracy, in THREE live shows, and walked thousands of steps at a nearby lake and at Knott’s Berry Farm. The Husband retired this year and that’s been an adjustment for both of us (I retired in 2022) but the freedom of not having to schedule around his job has been awesome. In short, 2025 coulda been worse so I’m grateful to make it out fairly unscathed.

Yeah, I’m a few days late to the New Year Party but it’s okay, especially since my word for this year is…

R*E*L*A*X

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What Mare Read in 2025

This year I read 79 books/novella’s, down quite a bit from last year. I spent a lot of time during the late summer and fall editing the book I’m writing, so that obliterated a chunk of my reading time… When I decided to do another revision on the book, all those hours spent on editing seemed like a waste, but I learned a lot about my own writing foibles, so not a total squandering of my time. The revising continues…

I keep lists of books I want to read everywhere ~ one on my phone Reminders list, one on the phone Notes, plus an Excel spreadsheet ~ LOL! The Reminders list is titled B&N and comes in handy when Barnes & Noble runs their 25% off pre-order sales, which are almost as exciting to me as the Scholastic book sales at school many moons ago. I love the anticipation of getting a new book in the mail weeks or months later ~ it’s always good to have something to look forward to! 😊 The 25% preorder sale is on now until 1/1/26, for B&N Rewards members.

I ran through the two Barnes & Noble book journals (See the 2024 post) I used to record and review the books I read, so I bought a pretty notebook (below, right). The journal only allowed one page per book, with specific information to fill out and a star rating system ~ not much room to write my thoughts. Since the notebook I’m using now is just simple, lined pages, I can write as much as I want about each book without squishing my writing and sometimes adding sticky notes. Loving the freedom! YAY!

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