Friday Fancies ~ June 26, 2026

Yikes! We’re almost to the middle of the year!!

After a live theater drought, we had two Sundays in a row at local live theatres.

I mentioned seeing The Book of Will at the Curtis on our anniversary. It’s about Shakespeare’s friends attempting to publish a folio of his plays.

I bought my complete Shakespeare, including the sonnets, on a teenage trip to Stratford-upon-Avon but I never stopped to think how the plays had been compiled. Turns out there wasn’t an equivalent to Samuel French, the company that publishes plays currently, in the 1600’s, so the scripts had to be gathered from actors and producers, and a search launched for a publisher willing to take a gamble on a fancy book of plays. Filled with love and loss, the most excellent cast gave us a lovely afternoon of theatre.

I’d seen ads for Anastasia at the La Mirada Civic Theatre ~ I’m a sucker for beautiful costumes, which the Romanov segments had in abundance ~ but the ticket prices were a bit prohibitive. Then I happened to see an Instagram announcement for 40% off the Father’s Day performance. Woo hoo! I’m so glad we were able to take advantage of the discount.

The Cathy Rigby production, filled with fine acting, singing, and dancing, did not disappoint. The costumes were gorgeous, especially Anastasia’s last gown ~ it sparkled in the stage lights (this pic doesn’t do it justice) ~ and the white gowns of the Romanov girls. A sequence of Swan Lake transcended the production and one dancer, I think his name is Anton Harrison LaMon, reminded me of Baryshnikov.

And the train number ~ choreographed on a moving stage with choreography of its own with a man posted on each corner “dancing” the train around, while the actors sang and danced between the seats. The projection behind the scene moved in sync to the position of the train. It was so fun to watch! And speaking of the projections at the back of the stage, I thought they were used seamlessly to show location and create mood. The Husband, a lifelong stage actor, grumbled a bit about new-fangled technology he and his cohorts never needed ~ LOL.

On the hunt now for more live theatre! Looking forward to the Curtis Theatre production of Assassins this fall.

The Husband and I attended our first Sisters in Crime Orange County Chapter meeting on Saturday. It was the inaugural meeting at their new venue, the Orange CA Public Library. Other than missing both raffle baskets by one number on each side of the eight tickets I bought *head explodes – LOL* we had a great time. The speaker, Charles Jensen, talked about revenge and editing his online revenge-centric magazine, Villain Era Literary Magazine. I think we’re going to enjoy this interesting group of writers and readers.

Spent a little time at a protest yesterday morning. We live a few miles away from The Richard Nixon Library. Last week, I saw an announcement that Vice President JD Vance would be holding a book signing on Thursday. I wanted him to know that writing a book about religion and then hawking it is not in his job description.  ‘Nuff said.

Quick and dirty sign 🙂

The red hat I wore was knitted and given to me by my Pennysaver buddy, Gayle Griffith. A sign of protest in WWII Norway, the hat has been resurrected for these disturbing times. Click here to read about its history and current symbolism and fundraising story.

Writing

Some exciting publishing news for me! My 75 word story about Maggie, one of the characters in my debut mystery, The Bonus Grave, won the honor to be published in The Smalls Too, a book issued by The California Writers Club. I’ve been a member of the Orange County branch for a year and a half. “Saved by the Heart” started out life as a 100-word story I wrote for myself, along with several others, to help me deepen some of my characters so I could write more comprehensively about them. 75 or 100 words only makes you focus on what’s really important in a scene! It’s available on Amazon.

Getting ready to start the line edits on The Bonus Grave! I think the story is just about as good as I can get it… It will never be perfect and I will forever find things to fix (for anything really egregious, I could re-publish but since my beta readers didn’t pick up on any structural disasters, I hope that won’t be necessary) but I think the story itself is done. As I do the last edit to tweak the words and sentences, I’ll be keeping an eye out for places where I could still deepen the characters here and there.

Reading

I mentioned meeting author Elle Jauffret at the March meeting of our writers club (see that post here). I read both of her Suddenly French mysteries recently, Threads of Deception and Cosplayed to Death, and I’m looking forward to her third one, hopefully coming out this fall.

Why I read it: I’d never heard of Foreign Accent Syndrome, which Claire, former attorney and current chef, developed as a result of a bombing at her old law firm. Picking up the pieces of her life, she moves back to the Southern California town where she grew up, living above her retired cop dad’s restaurant and sharing the apartment with a grumpy police detective.

Plot: In Threads of Deception, a friend who asked Claire to cater a Project Runway-style show is found dead. Lots of suspects with various overlapping reasons for wanting her gone. Claire really doesn’t want to investigate but, as a former attorney, she doesn’t like the way the case is being dealt with, so she steps in with interesting and sometimes scary results. Cosplayed to Death deals with surfers and a group of actors cosplaying their oceanic characters. An arrogant rich kid is the first murder and he’s got plenty of viable haters for suspects. Then one of the cosplayers, who is going to unhealthy lengths to “become” her character, is killed. Claire delves into the circumstances of both deaths.

What I liked: I’m a stickler for good peripheral characters and I love her best friend, Suggie, her dad, Frank, and even Torres, the cop, is growing on me. Subplots of immigration issues (her newly acquired French accent put her at a serious disadvantage in several situations), Suggie’s determination to become a respected journalist, an ongoing mystery about the disappearance of Claire’s sister years ago, and the tough decision of where Claire wants her life to go from here keep me invested.

Streaming/Watching

At the moment, we’re rewatching Numb3rs, the series about Don Eppes, an FBI agent, his brilliant mathematician professor brother, Charlie, and retired architect father, Alan. I’ve always loved this series because there are three separate engaging aspects to the show ~ the crime/FBI stories, the academic setting, and the Eppes family dynamic. Watching how the three main elements weave together made this more than just a cop show. Rob Morrow, David Krumholtz, and Judd Hirsch starred.

From l-r, Judd Hirsch, Diane Farr, Alimi Ballard, Rob Morrow, David Krumholtz, Dylan Bruno and Navi Rawat of the CBS series NUMB3RS. Photo: Cliff Lipson/CBS ©2006 CBS Broadcasting Inc. All Rights Reserved.

Be kind to yourselves and each other. Till next Thursday!

La Mirada Theatre photography: Jason Niedle

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 18, 2026

Happy Juneteenth Eve! Oh, how I wish I could be at the opening of the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago tomorrow to see this portrait in person!!

The Obama’s with Njideka Akunyili Crosby, portraitist.

The Husband and I celebrated our 46th anniversary last Sunday. Being married this long creates such an enduring, varied, emotional, amazing history. You think 24 is all grown up, but really, we were such kids! Had a nice lunch at the Stonefire Grill, then saw the play, The Book of Will, at the Curtis Theatre in Brea, CA.

Us kids! Then…

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Delightful Book Mail!

I haven’t been so delighted with a mail delivery since Amazon sent me an order in a Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-themed box!

In early June, Edward Underhill, a trans author whose books I love, announced in his newsletter that he would be signing pre-orders of his newest book, The House of Now and Then, through Scribbles Bookshop, a signed copies only romance book store. I was bummed because I’d already pre-ordered it during a Barnes & Noble 25% off pre-order sale (raise your hand if you, too, keep a pre-order list in your phone…). But he went on to say that he’d also be signing all of his backlist. YAY!!! I own all of his previous books in paper, except his first book, Always the Almost, a queer YA story, which I’d gotten as an ebook, so I went from bummed to stoked in two seconds flat!

Yes, I really do get this excited over books 😊

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 11, 2026

To all you Knott’s Berry Farm afficionado’s, Happy Ghost Town Alive Eve! IYKYK.

Once again, I’m initiating a once a week blog. They may be a bit shorter than before… And they might not be on the same day… We’ll see. I’m retired, therefore being on a schedule is not mandatory anymore LOL! But I do miss documenting all the stories in my life ~ my own, my writing, and other peoples’ writing and entertainment. So, here we go!

Beautiful flowers on our neighborhood walk.

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Bunches of Bubbles!

I would have sworn I wrote about this last year but I see no proof of this…

I love bubbles!!

After I dispense dish washing liquid onto a sponge, I squeeze the plastic container and shoot bubbles all over the kitchen. I currently have two tiny tubes of bubble juice and wands on the kitchen counter given as favors at a baby shower we attended in February. I use them when I need a lift or want to mess with the cat, LOL. Bubbles have always fascinated and delighted me.

So, why did it take me so long to buy tickets to the annual Bubblefest show at Discovery Cube in Santa Ana? For years, I would see the skyscraper-sized ads on the side of the Cube, beckoning me. You know how it is, though… you’ll get around to it someday. Well SOMEDAY was last year. And even though we were outnumbered by kids and surrounded by loudness from screaming and music, this curmudgeon loved it! And went back again for more this year.

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First Date Anniversary #48!!

Anybody else out there celebrate the anniversaries of your first date? We’ve celebrated all except one – I don’t recall what was going on that year, but I was gutted to realize we’d missed it. I mean, it’s exactly two weeks after The Husband’s birthday… I guarantee, we’ve never missed it since!

The Husband and I met during an acting class we attended on Hollywood Boulevard. Poor, young 20-somethings, we chose the Howard Johnson’s restaurant down the street for our first date. Below, is a picture (couldn’t find a photographer to credit) that I believe to be the actual restaurant, torn down years ago, because it was right near the Capitol Records building. And that was the beginning of our Happily Ever After!

PS-I had a tuna melt and I still own the outfit I wore that night. ‘Course, it will never fit me again ~ LOL!

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*Catching Up*

Holy Hearts and Shamrocks, Batman! It’s March!

Life’s been lifin’, so it’s been a while, kids. I think I’ll start with our latest museum visit and promise to catch up on reading, watching, and places we’ve been in posts I’ll get out to you soon.

I’m looking out the window right now and the trees are swaying and dancing, like fans at a Springsteen concert! It’s uber windy out there, so no walking at the park today. We did some miles on the treadmill at the gym this morning.

Yesterday morning, we managed to get out to our first writer’s meeting of the year (we were sick in January, then a downtown parade blocked our path in February ~ yes, we might have gotten there through back streets but… we didn’t 😊). So glad we got there today. Elle Jauffret, former lawyer and current mystery writer, gave an excellent talk on finding the “spine” of your book (the dramatic question that must be answered), how to keep that question top of mind throughout the story, and how to integrate different genres together organically.

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RELAX!!!

There are plenty of reasons to kick 2025 to the curb ~ heinous politics, health issues, book not published ~ but we also went to the first protests we’d ever participated in, made enjoyable use of our annual passes to the Discovery Cube, saw our friend, Robb Tracy, in THREE live shows, and walked thousands of steps at a nearby lake and at Knott’s Berry Farm. The Husband retired this year and that’s been an adjustment for both of us (I retired in 2022) but the freedom of not having to schedule around his job has been awesome. In short, 2025 coulda been worse so I’m grateful to make it out fairly unscathed.

Yeah, I’m a few days late to the New Year Party but it’s okay, especially since my word for this year is…

R*E*L*A*X

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What Mare Read in 2025

This year I read 79 books/novella’s, down quite a bit from last year. I spent a lot of time during the late summer and fall editing the book I’m writing, so that obliterated a chunk of my reading time… When I decided to do another revision on the book, all those hours spent on editing seemed like a waste, but I learned a lot about my own writing foibles, so not a total squandering of my time. The revising continues…

I keep lists of books I want to read everywhere ~ one on my phone Reminders list, one on the phone Notes, plus an Excel spreadsheet ~ LOL! The Reminders list is titled B&N and comes in handy when Barnes & Noble runs their 25% off pre-order sales, which are almost as exciting to me as the Scholastic book sales at school many moons ago. I love the anticipation of getting a new book in the mail weeks or months later ~ it’s always good to have something to look forward to! 😊 The 25% preorder sale is on now until 1/1/26, for B&N Rewards members.

I ran through the two Barnes & Noble book journals (See the 2024 post) I used to record and review the books I read, so I bought a pretty notebook (below, right). The journal only allowed one page per book, with specific information to fill out and a star rating system ~ not much room to write my thoughts. Since the notebook I’m using now is just simple, lined pages, I can write as much as I want about each book without squishing my writing and sometimes adding sticky notes. Loving the freedom! YAY!

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A Christmasier Christmas Than Usual!

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate! Happy Thursday for those who don’t! And thank you for your service to anyone who has to work today!

Welcome to the last of The Five Blogs of Christmas!

The few things we’ve done for Christmas in the last bunch of years have mainly been performative – I insist on a fresh wreath inside our front door for the beautiful smell and our annual trek around the crazy Christmas light neighborhood (Click here full post). Holiday music isn’t allowed until after Thanksgiving. Our only stab at decorating is a tiny pink tree that keeps its ornaments year-round.

But this year, I started the music on November 1. And a four-foot tree, woven with white lights, charmed us at a thrift store. All it needed was Hector, my 48-year-old furry angel topper (Click here for full post), so I thought.

But I found a few ornaments in a closet, one especially dear to my heart – Santa’s list, bought when we were first married, includes both of our names!

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