Friday Fancies ~ July 10, 2026

We had an unusually quiet Fourth of July weekend. Not ones for crowds, we don’t go to fireworks displays but this year, I didn’t even drive the entire weekend, which was quite nice, considering the idiot drivers we’ve (nearly) run into lately! Saturday, we watched Independence Day (silly, full of plot holes, but quirky fun!) while noshing hot dogs, bacon cheddar potato salad, and apple pie a la mode. Sunday, we vegged out. It’s good to relax with no agenda sometimes.

We’ve been trying to convince ourselves to adopt the Mediterranean diet, so we’re planning to start slow and get ourselves used to eating and shopping in a whole new way. Any recipes or suggestions appreciated!

The Muck

Ready for a batch of pictures? The Muckenthaler Cultural Center in Fullerton (CA) is hosting More Than Love: The Life and Art of Natalie Wood. Consisting of photos, artwork by Wood and others, and movie memorabilia, it continues through August 21.

A couple of art pieces from The Muck collection outside.

The gallery at The Muckenthaler is lovely, but the beautiful windows do make photography a challenge… Note the tiny picture on the right, of a young Natalie.

Information about the exhibit and a word from Natalie’s daughter, Natasha.

A beautiful music box, description and story below.

One of the outfits she wore in Gypsy. The bra isn’t in the best shape but the leotard looked gorgeous ~ and heavy!

Designed by Orry-Kelly

Close up. I wish there had been more costumes! I gotta get to the Oscar museum!

Left: Handwritten directions from David Niven to his home in Switzerland, the Christmas after Natalie’s death. Right: the family with Laurence Olivier.

Portrait of Robert Wagner by Margaret Keane, the “Sad Eyes” painter.

A couple of videos played in this display. Robert Redford, who had starred in several films with Natalie, talked about their friendship and how he barred her from late entry to a high school event without realizing who she was when they were kids. There were also two commercials she did for a skin cream 🙂

The Great Race is one of The Husband’s favorite films.

Gorgeous! Designed by Don Feld

So happy to find that The Little Prince was her favorite book! Somewhere along the way, the book was lost. I hope you can read the letter ~ this gentleman returned the book to Natasha when he found it after a recent move. It had been given to his wife years ago by an old boyfriend…

Artist Eviva depicted Natalie, Robert Wagner, and their daughters in a Russian folktale style.

A Tribute to Claire Cezanne by Terechkovitch, that Natalie displayed in her bedroom.

Writing

Yes, I have finally started line edits! I’m up to page six! LOL! Examining every line to make it as crisp and expressive as possible is a time-consuming necessity. Good Writing, by Neal Allen and Anne LaMott is sitting on my desk, next to my laptop, for easy reference.

I’ve also been trying to do a few of the Sisters in Crime write ins on Zoom, part of their Summer Scrawl program, but so far, I’ve only managed two.  That’s ok – two is better than none and they nudge me to do more!

Reading

Vanished in the Crowd by Rhys Bowen and Clare Broyles

Why I read it: It’s the 22nd Molly Murphy mystery in the series. I’ve been a fan of Molly (and Rhys) since Murphy’s Law came out in 2001! Even if you haven’t read the others, if it sounds like something you’d want to read, it works as a stand-alone. You’ll understand who all the characters are in a general way, just not Molly’s personal history, which is okay but I do encourage you to read this series. Just the cultural and historical viewpoints alone, besides the strength of Molly herself, are solid reasons to delve into these stories.

Plot: The Hudson-Fulton Celebration, a week-long event of parades and speeches in NYC in 1909, is the backdrop for this book. Molly’s best friends, Sid and Gus, a lesbian couple who live across the road, are working on a float for one of the parades and hosting a sister Vassar alumnus in their home. When the woman doesn’t show up, they hire Molly, a former private detective, to find her. As the mystery unfolds, Molly finds herself in the company of suffragists plotting to spread their mission, while one woman who has made great strides in her knowledge of polio can’t continue unless her husband, who gets the credit for all of her work, is offered a place in a laboratory that will enable her to do more research as his “assistant”. So much of this book highlights the unfairness and inequality that women endured – it’s a valuable reminder of the rights women could be losing if we don’t continue to fight for what is ours.

What I liked: The Hudson-Fulton Celebration was a real event – there are plenty of photographs and illustrations online – and the way Bowen and Broyles weave Molly’s story through the pomp and regalia is masterful. Headstrong Irish immigrant Molly is wife to Daniel, once a captain in the NYC police force and now head of the NY FBI, and a mom of three, who is torn between loving and caring for her family and wanting to do more with her life and intellect. Also, seeing the state of womanhood through so many disparate individuals – young, old, well-off, poor, married, single, and widowed (there was much to say for widowhood-a woman didn’t need to ask permission to work and her money was her own) – and mention of the suffragette’s treatment in England at that time was eye-opening.

Streaming/Watching

If you’ve ever seen Mary Poppins, you’ll recall a very sanitized version of the suffragette movement in England. Mrs. Banks marched around the house in her straw hat and banner, singing with her servants. Maybe her class was spared the inhumane treatment that the lower classes were subjected to.

But in Suffragette, a 2015 film with Carey Mulligan, Helena Bonham Carter, and five minutes worth of Meryl Streep, no punches are pulled. The movie is not for the faint of heart. Carey Mulligan’s character, Maud, slowly comes to realize that her fate as a woman should be in her hands, not men’s. The sacrifice she and others make for a cause they can barely articulate lands them in jail, at the hands of brutal men and, even harder to take, women. It’s a dark story with an abundance of loss, sorrow, and violence, but it’s also an inspiration to women everywhere to keep fighting for our autonomy and dignity. Great script and acting.

Be kind to yourselves and each other. Till next week!

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Friday Fancies ~ July 3, 2026

Happy Fourth of July Eve.

I don’t think I’m in the minority when I say the 250th anniversary of our great American experiment is not hitting with the joy and fervor it deserves. I was 20 in 1976 and the celebration of our 200th birthday was met with all the genuine patriotism, fanfare, and love our little hearts could pump out. A red, white, and blue, flag waving, year-long party. Tall ships in Boston Harbor. Hour long fireworks displays. Politics raged on but didn’t dampen our collective spirits.

But here we are, in 2026, a nation divided. I read a newsletter today by artist Danielle Coke Balfour (Oh Happy Dani) that included her timely illustration:

I think MLK’s quote is especially relevant today. The rights we have been guaranteed in writing are in jeopardy and we simply want “what you said on paper” to be upheld and honored for all Americans. It’s that simple.

I hope my fellow US citizens have an enjoyable day of appreciation for the country we are meant to be.

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Friday Fancies ~ June 26, 2026

Yikes! We’re almost to the middle of the year!!

After a live theater drought, we had two Sundays in a row at local live theatres.

I mentioned seeing The Book of Will at the Curtis on our anniversary. It’s about Shakespeare’s friends attempting to publish a folio of his plays.

I bought my complete Shakespeare, including the sonnets, on a teenage trip to Stratford-upon-Avon but I never stopped to think how the plays had been compiled. Turns out there wasn’t an equivalent to Samuel French, the company that publishes plays currently, in the 1600’s, so the scripts had to be gathered from actors and producers, and a search launched for a publisher willing to take a gamble on a fancy book of plays. Filled with love and loss, the most excellent cast gave us a lovely afternoon of theatre.

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 18, 2026

Happy Juneteenth Eve! Oh, how I wish I could be at the opening of the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago tomorrow to see this portrait in person!!

The Obama’s with Njideka Akunyili Crosby, portraitist.

The Husband and I celebrated our 46th anniversary last Sunday. Being married this long creates such an enduring, varied, emotional, amazing history. You think 24 is all grown up, but really, we were such kids! Had a nice lunch at the Stonefire Grill, then saw the play, The Book of Will, at the Curtis Theatre in Brea, CA.

Us kids! Then…

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Delightful Book Mail!

I haven’t been so delighted with a mail delivery since Amazon sent me an order in a Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-themed box!

In early June, Edward Underhill, a trans author whose books I love, announced in his newsletter that he would be signing pre-orders of his newest book, The House of Now and Then, through Scribbles Bookshop, a signed copies only romance book store. I was bummed because I’d already pre-ordered it during a Barnes & Noble 25% off pre-order sale (raise your hand if you, too, keep a pre-order list in your phone…). But he went on to say that he’d also be signing all of his backlist. YAY!!! I own all of his previous books in paper, except his first book, Always the Almost, a queer YA story, which I’d gotten as an ebook, so I went from bummed to stoked in two seconds flat!

Yes, I really do get this excited over books 😊

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 11, 2026

To all you Knott’s Berry Farm afficionado’s, Happy Ghost Town Alive Eve! IYKYK.

Once again, I’m initiating a once a week blog. They may be a bit shorter than before… And they might not be on the same day… We’ll see. I’m retired, therefore being on a schedule is not mandatory anymore LOL! But I do miss documenting all the stories in my life ~ my own, my writing, and other peoples’ writing and entertainment. So, here we go!

Beautiful flowers on our neighborhood walk.

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Bunches of Bubbles!

I would have sworn I wrote about this last year but I see no proof of this…

I love bubbles!!

After I dispense dish washing liquid onto a sponge, I squeeze the plastic container and shoot bubbles all over the kitchen. I currently have two tiny tubes of bubble juice and wands on the kitchen counter given as favors at a baby shower we attended in February. I use them when I need a lift or want to mess with the cat, LOL. Bubbles have always fascinated and delighted me.

So, why did it take me so long to buy tickets to the annual Bubblefest show at Discovery Cube in Santa Ana? For years, I would see the skyscraper-sized ads on the side of the Cube, beckoning me. You know how it is, though… you’ll get around to it someday. Well SOMEDAY was last year. And even though we were outnumbered by kids and surrounded by loudness from screaming and music, this curmudgeon loved it! And went back again for more this year.

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First Date Anniversary #48!!

Anybody else out there celebrate the anniversaries of your first date? We’ve celebrated all except one – I don’t recall what was going on that year, but I was gutted to realize we’d missed it. I mean, it’s exactly two weeks after The Husband’s birthday… I guarantee, we’ve never missed it since!

The Husband and I met during an acting class we attended on Hollywood Boulevard. Poor, young 20-somethings, we chose the Howard Johnson’s restaurant down the street for our first date. Below, is a picture (couldn’t find a photographer to credit) that I believe to be the actual restaurant, torn down years ago, because it was right near the Capitol Records building. And that was the beginning of our Happily Ever After!

PS-I had a tuna melt and I still own the outfit I wore that night. ‘Course, it will never fit me again ~ LOL!

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*Catching Up*

Holy Hearts and Shamrocks, Batman! It’s March!

Life’s been lifin’, so it’s been a while, kids. I think I’ll start with our latest museum visit and promise to catch up on reading, watching, and places we’ve been in posts I’ll get out to you soon.

I’m looking out the window right now and the trees are swaying and dancing, like fans at a Springsteen concert! It’s uber windy out there, so no walking at the park today. We did some miles on the treadmill at the gym this morning.

Yesterday morning, we managed to get out to our first writer’s meeting of the year (we were sick in January, then a downtown parade blocked our path in February ~ yes, we might have gotten there through back streets but… we didn’t 😊). So glad we got there today. Elle Jauffret, former lawyer and current mystery writer, gave an excellent talk on finding the “spine” of your book (the dramatic question that must be answered), how to keep that question top of mind throughout the story, and how to integrate different genres together organically.

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RELAX!!!

There are plenty of reasons to kick 2025 to the curb ~ heinous politics, health issues, book not published ~ but we also went to the first protests we’d ever participated in, made enjoyable use of our annual passes to the Discovery Cube, saw our friend, Robb Tracy, in THREE live shows, and walked thousands of steps at a nearby lake and at Knott’s Berry Farm. The Husband retired this year and that’s been an adjustment for both of us (I retired in 2022) but the freedom of not having to schedule around his job has been awesome. In short, 2025 coulda been worse so I’m grateful to make it out fairly unscathed.

Yeah, I’m a few days late to the New Year Party but it’s okay, especially since my word for this year is…

R*E*L*A*X

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