Thursday Thoughts ~ July 23, 2026

Welcome in??? Have you been greeted with those words when walking into stores or restaurants lately? “Welcome in” to what? It just sounds strange to me and I’m not sure where this trend originated, but it arrived in SoCal this year and I wish it would make its way to the nearest exit SOON.  This article on Eater.com from 2024 has some thoughts.

August is nearing and that means the Perseid Meteor Showers are here, with peak viewing on August 12 and 13. Now that I’m retired and not tied to a work schedule, maybe I’ll set an alarm for the middle of the night and sit on my front steps to watch the show. When I was twenty-one, my mother and I moved cross country in our LTD Ford station wagon, all our earthly belongings piled in back. One of my fondest memories from that journey was the only night we actually pitched the two-person tent – outside Williamsburg, Virginia, we lay out in the late-night breeze, watching meteors streak across the sky, wondering where this adventure would take us.

Happy Mare’s Birthday Eve Eve! Let the birthday weekend begin!

Writing

And the line edits continue… and continue… This process, reviewing each line to make it as clear as it can be, is grueling. This is the time you finally have to replace all those words that weren’t quite right, definitively research “facts” you’re 99% sure of, and execute the tragic demise of your darlings. I’m up to Word page 46 of 192. Admittedly, life keeps lifin’ and I’m not always able to devote as much time as I’d like. But, slowly but surely, it’s coming along.

Reading

Take Me with You by Steven Rowley

Why I read it: I loved The Guncle and the premise of his new book, Take Me with You, sounded like a journey I wanted to take with him. If you’re interested in the story behind this story, here’s a People article about Steven and his husband, Byron.

Plot: What would you do if you watched your spouse/loved one walk into the beam of an alien spaceship and vanish? Feeling abandoned, Jesse goes into denial as he struggles with Norman’s disappearance, while Norman’s sister, Lally, needs to find him so she can move on with her life. Jesse, who never knew his father, and Lally, who lost a brother at a very young age, are both searching for answers and connection in very different ways.

What I liked: So many scenes stand out in my mind but you need to discover them yourselves. Without giving anything away, here are a few: Jesse goes to the Integratron, a real place near Joshua Tree, for a sound bath session ~ A middle-of-the-desert observation of the Milky Way that leads to one of the most bizarre segments of the book ~ The wedding of one of Jesse’s comedy students ~ A disastrous dinner party. And you know me, I love interesting peripheral characters and there are plenty here to enjoy! And the last few pages… well, break out the tissues.

I also read Whose Body in the Library, Eva Gates 13th Lighthouse Library mystery. The first twelve books featured Lucy, the assistant librarian at the Bodie Lighthouse Library. This new story introduces a new main character, Nichelle, who, like Lucy in the first book of the series, comes to Nags Head, NC, to start a new life. Don’t want to throw out any spoilers, so suffice to say, I thought it was an interesting way to keep a popular series going.

Streaming/Watching

I’ve been watching a fascinating series but I don’t want to comment until I finish the last available season. And we finished our fourth or fifth full series watch of Numb3rs, so now we’re watching the Bruce Lee Green Hornet series (The Husband’s pick 😊). We may do the full series of Nash Bridges next. We’ve seen most of the episodes but not in order…

Be kind to yourselves and each other. Till next week!

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Friday Fancies ~ July 10, 2026

We had an unusually quiet Fourth of July weekend. Not ones for crowds, we don’t go to fireworks displays but this year, I didn’t even drive the entire weekend, which was quite nice, considering the idiot drivers we’ve (nearly) run into lately! Saturday, we watched Independence Day (silly, full of plot holes, but quirky fun!) while noshing hot dogs, bacon cheddar potato salad, and apple pie a la mode. Sunday, we vegged out. It’s good to relax with no agenda sometimes.

We’ve been trying to convince ourselves to adopt the Mediterranean diet, so we’re planning to start slow and get ourselves used to eating and shopping in a whole new way. Any recipes or suggestions appreciated!

The Muck

Ready for a batch of pictures? The Muckenthaler Cultural Center in Fullerton (CA) is hosting More Than Love: The Life and Art of Natalie Wood. Consisting of photos, artwork by Wood and others, and movie memorabilia, it continues through August 21.

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Friday Fancies ~ July 3, 2026

Happy Fourth of July Eve.

I don’t think I’m in the minority when I say the 250th anniversary of our great American experiment is not hitting with the joy and fervor it deserves. I was 20 in 1976 and the celebration of our 200th birthday was met with all the genuine patriotism, fanfare, and love our little hearts could pump out. A red, white, and blue, flag waving, year-long party. Tall ships in Boston Harbor. Hour long fireworks displays. Politics raged on but didn’t dampen our collective spirits.

But here we are, in 2026, a nation divided. I read a newsletter today by artist Danielle Coke Balfour (Oh Happy Dani) that included her timely illustration:

I think MLK’s quote is especially relevant today. The rights we have been guaranteed in writing are in jeopardy and we simply want “what you said on paper” to be upheld and honored for all Americans. It’s that simple.

I hope my fellow US citizens have an enjoyable day of appreciation for the country we are meant to be.

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Friday Fancies ~ June 26, 2026

Yikes! We’re almost to the middle of the year!!

After a live theater drought, we had two Sundays in a row at local live theatres.

I mentioned seeing The Book of Will at the Curtis on our anniversary. It’s about Shakespeare’s friends attempting to publish a folio of his plays.

I bought my complete Shakespeare, including the sonnets, on a teenage trip to Stratford-upon-Avon but I never stopped to think how the plays had been compiled. Turns out there wasn’t an equivalent to Samuel French, the company that publishes plays currently, in the 1600’s, so the scripts had to be gathered from actors and producers, and a search launched for a publisher willing to take a gamble on a fancy book of plays. Filled with love and loss, the most excellent cast gave us a lovely afternoon of theatre.

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 18, 2026

Happy Juneteenth Eve! Oh, how I wish I could be at the opening of the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago tomorrow to see this portrait in person!!

The Obama’s with Njideka Akunyili Crosby, portraitist.

The Husband and I celebrated our 46th anniversary last Sunday. Being married this long creates such an enduring, varied, emotional, amazing history. You think 24 is all grown up, but really, we were such kids! Had a nice lunch at the Stonefire Grill, then saw the play, The Book of Will, at the Curtis Theatre in Brea, CA.

Us kids! Then…

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Delightful Book Mail!

I haven’t been so delighted with a mail delivery since Amazon sent me an order in a Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-themed box!

In early June, Edward Underhill, a trans author whose books I love, announced in his newsletter that he would be signing pre-orders of his newest book, The House of Now and Then, through Scribbles Bookshop, a signed copies only romance book store. I was bummed because I’d already pre-ordered it during a Barnes & Noble 25% off pre-order sale (raise your hand if you, too, keep a pre-order list in your phone…). But he went on to say that he’d also be signing all of his backlist. YAY!!! I own all of his previous books in paper, except his first book, Always the Almost, a queer YA story, which I’d gotten as an ebook, so I went from bummed to stoked in two seconds flat!

Yes, I really do get this excited over books 😊

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Thursday Thoughts ~ June 11, 2026

To all you Knott’s Berry Farm afficionado’s, Happy Ghost Town Alive Eve! IYKYK.

Once again, I’m initiating a once a week blog. They may be a bit shorter than before… And they might not be on the same day… We’ll see. I’m retired, therefore being on a schedule is not mandatory anymore LOL! But I do miss documenting all the stories in my life ~ my own, my writing, and other peoples’ writing and entertainment. So, here we go!

Beautiful flowers on our neighborhood walk.

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Bunches of Bubbles!

I would have sworn I wrote about this last year but I see no proof of this…

I love bubbles!!

After I dispense dish washing liquid onto a sponge, I squeeze the plastic container and shoot bubbles all over the kitchen. I currently have two tiny tubes of bubble juice and wands on the kitchen counter given as favors at a baby shower we attended in February. I use them when I need a lift or want to mess with the cat, LOL. Bubbles have always fascinated and delighted me.

So, why did it take me so long to buy tickets to the annual Bubblefest show at Discovery Cube in Santa Ana? For years, I would see the skyscraper-sized ads on the side of the Cube, beckoning me. You know how it is, though… you’ll get around to it someday. Well SOMEDAY was last year. And even though we were outnumbered by kids and surrounded by loudness from screaming and music, this curmudgeon loved it! And went back again for more this year.

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First Date Anniversary #48!!

Anybody else out there celebrate the anniversaries of your first date? We’ve celebrated all except one – I don’t recall what was going on that year, but I was gutted to realize we’d missed it. I mean, it’s exactly two weeks after The Husband’s birthday… I guarantee, we’ve never missed it since!

The Husband and I met during an acting class we attended on Hollywood Boulevard. Poor, young 20-somethings, we chose the Howard Johnson’s restaurant down the street for our first date. Below, is a picture (couldn’t find a photographer to credit) that I believe to be the actual restaurant, torn down years ago, because it was right near the Capitol Records building. And that was the beginning of our Happily Ever After!

PS-I had a tuna melt and I still own the outfit I wore that night. ‘Course, it will never fit me again ~ LOL!

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*Catching Up*

Holy Hearts and Shamrocks, Batman! It’s March!

Life’s been lifin’, so it’s been a while, kids. I think I’ll start with our latest museum visit and promise to catch up on reading, watching, and places we’ve been in posts I’ll get out to you soon.

I’m looking out the window right now and the trees are swaying and dancing, like fans at a Springsteen concert! It’s uber windy out there, so no walking at the park today. We did some miles on the treadmill at the gym this morning.

Yesterday morning, we managed to get out to our first writer’s meeting of the year (we were sick in January, then a downtown parade blocked our path in February ~ yes, we might have gotten there through back streets but… we didn’t 😊). So glad we got there today. Elle Jauffret, former lawyer and current mystery writer, gave an excellent talk on finding the “spine” of your book (the dramatic question that must be answered), how to keep that question top of mind throughout the story, and how to integrate different genres together organically.

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