Author: GrayMareWrites

Writing has always been in my DNA, from the time I learned to read. I've had productive eras and fallow periods. But now, in retirement, I'm dedicated to getting a few books out into the universe. In 2025, I'm going to concentrate I'm Writing as Fast as I Can on stories - what I'm reading, what's entertaining me and what I'm writing. Words and stories have been my lifelong pleasure and I plan to share that pleasure with you. You can visit me at www.instagram.com/graymarewrites and www.facebook.com/GrayMareWrites Thanks for reading and I hope you'll drop a comment now and then.

Thursday Thoughts ~ May 29, 2025

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Hope everybody had a good Memorial Day. I kept thinking it was Sunday… We put out our trash on Monday nights, so we had to scramble on Tuesday morning to get the cans out… Then found out they’d be a day behind on pickup, which hasn’t happened all year with the other Monday holidays… Hauled them back in, only to bring them back out Wednesday morning… How was your Memorial Day??!!

Spent some time binging The Four Seasons on Netflix. I purposely didn’t rewatch the original Alan Alda/Carol Burnett movie from the 80’s, because I wanted to see the series with fresh eyes. I enjoyed it, especially since it updated the story with one of the couples being gay. I just read a not-so-hot review, saying the writers used too many clichés and didn’t build the characters very deeply. Honestly, I don’t expect a lot of deep introspection from a sit-com. There were some lovely moments, however, especially from Kerri Kenney, who plays a betrayed wife. I will admit, though, that the Tina Fey and Will Forte characters in the last two episodes were annoying as hell. After a bombshell ending, unsurprisingly, there will be another “season” at some point.

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Thursday Thoughts ~ May 22, 2025

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I need to make better use of this blog. Besides the fact that I pay for it every year, I’m gearing up to publish my first book (!), a cozy mystery, and 1) I need to stay accountable and 2) I want to take you along on my self-publishing journey. There’ll be challenges, learning curves and it’ll probably get pretty sweary!

So, every Thursday, like I did three years ago… I’m going to write about what I’m enjoying, progress I’m making on my cozy mystery, maybe a rant or two… Just whatever life’s throwing at me and what I’m throwing back.

Here goes:

Our Evil HOA is making us paint our house. The cost is heart-thuddingly high but since we may be (or may not be, who can tell what the future holds…) aging in place here, we have to do the upkeep according to the bylaws. My advice—never NEVER live in a place with a Home Owners Association.

Last Saturday was my late mom’s birthday. Every year, we celebrate her day by having lunch at an Italian restaurant, Graziano’s in Yorba Linda. It’s a family run place with authentic tasting food. So good! Chef’s kiss!

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Hands Off Protest April 5, 2025

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This is not a political post. Hands Off was meant to be a bipartisan day of protest for the policies being currently enacted by the American government. This post is only about my participation in the rally.

I missed the protests of the 1960’s, since I was only in junior high by the end of the decade. My parents weren’t activists, so I never had the experience of marching for the causes so vital in those times, like civil rights, and an end to the Vietnam War. I certainly remember those chaotic years, but only from the safety of my living room.

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The Dead Sea Scrolls Exhibit

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The Husband really wanted to see The Dead Sea Scrolls at the Reagan Library (thrilled to see something older than us 😊). They have a very versatile exhibition space that garners impressive museum-quality presentations from around the world. In years past, we would drive to Simi (it’s about 1 ½ hours north of us) and stay overnight for a relaxing couple of days. But now, our cat Patchwork’s diabetes prohibits overnight jaunts. So, we made a quick day of it, taking the scenic route through downtown LA by mistake – LOL!

Going to a Republican Presidential Library gave me pause but I never heard any mention of The President Who Shall Not Be Named, so that was good. And, I admit, I wore as much blue as I could, including my nail color!

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Fave Books by Black Authors

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In honor of Black History Month, I’ve compiled a list of books I’ve enjoyed, written by black authors. If I try to give a description of each one, I’ll never get it done. I’ve been trying to do an LGBTQ+ book list with full descriptions but for some reason, it’s been daunting. Probably because I’ve tried to keep my writing focus on the edits of my first book, a cozy mystery, which I plan to publish sometime this year. Believe it or not, when I do a blog post, it takes plenty of time and research to make sure I’ve got all the details right. Plus, there’s lots of personal and political stuff taking up a bunch of my attention, too.

So, if any of these authors/titles pique your interest, please check them out at your favorite booksellers or at the library. Or pick up the middle grade and YA for your young readers (and yourself, of course. Great stories come in all age categories!)

And give these authors some social media love, too!

If you have some recommendations, I’d love to hear them in the comments. C’mon, share!

Happy Reading!

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I Just Wanna Scream!

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I was weaned on soap operas. I watched with The Mom from the time I could sit up on my own. When I’d come home from first grade, I’d demand the story lines from that day’s episodes of Guiding Light, Secret Storm, As the World Turns, and the eternal General Hospital. I watched into my high school years, but when Love is a Many Splendored Thing went off the air in 1973, I took that as a sign to move on from soaps.

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2025 Word For the Year

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I pick a word for the coming year as encouragement, inspiration, and an arrow pointing the way into the next twelve months. The last few weeks I’ve been wearing out my Dictionary app, looking at words like fulfill and achieve. But I finally decided on my very favorite word:

P O S S I B I L I T I E S

I love the word Possibilities because it’s such a liberating word – it opens our minds, our hearts, our imaginations, and our determination.

It ushers in the secret sauce of life – HOPE.

It reminds us that we have unlimited choices.

Possibilities are the steps right before commitment –

the steps that boost us to YES!

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What Mare Read in 2024

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I can’t believe I read 94 books and 2 short stories in 2024!

I read quite a bit on the Kindle phone app, so I sneak in reading time on the treadmill at the gym, waiting in lines and in the middle of the night when I can’t sleep but don’t want to turn the light on. So, I think my reading time is probably around 25% more than if I just read paper books. When I had a long commute, I didn’t have as much time to read paper books but listening to books on CD kept me sane — and, yes, “listening” to books counts as “reading” to me, because it’s all about the story, not about the delivery.

I would recommend any of these books.

My Extra Special Favorites are in RED

I left one or two out of the list that I finished reading but didn’t really like and I won’t mention the books that I didn’t finish reading (DNF). DNF is so subjective – sometimes you’re not in the mood for the subject matter, you find the writing disappointing or the characters or story just don’t spark your interest – so why bum a writer out by giving a bad review when maybe it really is just YOU…  

Listing out all the books I’ve read in 2024 has been an interesting exercise. I read 48 cozy mysteries, fully half of my reads this year. Autobiographies are not usually my thing, but I read 8. I usually read a lot more Young Adult but I only see one on the list! This must be rectified in 2025! It also struck me that I don’t care what category a book is in – I just read what interests me – so when I was trying to categorize some of these books, I had to look them up on Amazon!

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Some Holiday Reading

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Here are a few of the holiday books I read these last few months. Remember, if it’s a little late in the season for you, holiday stories can be read all year long! Same for movies-I watch The Holiday, While You Were Sleeping and Desk Set several times a year.

Christmas Magic at Holly Oaks – Racquel Henry

Originally written as a movie script, you can definitely imagine this as a Hallmark Holiday rom-com. It’s a story of second chances, featuring Rose, a Christmas hater, whose sister plunks her right in the middle of the Christmas Capital of the US. Where she promptly runs into Malcolm, the man who broke her heart nine years earlier. When the Holly Oaks Tree Farm – beloved by everyone in town and a special favorite for Malcolm – experiences a crisis, Rose steps in. And Holly Oaks begins to work its magic. A fun novella with characters you’ll love.

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Stories

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Hi kids! It’s been a minute… or two… Life, as it will, keeps intruding. I’ve been working on my first cozy mystery after putting the romance novella on hold. Currently working on my third revision and almost ready for my beta reader to take a first whack at it.

I just looked back at the blog and realized I only posted twice in the last 12 months! Truly, this year wasn’t the creative blockbuster I’d hoped for but a year ago, I declared my word for 2024 to be Onward and onward I went, through medical woes, both human and feline, writing challenges and political disappointments.

Now, I want to focus on what I’m reading, writing, and entertaining myself with. Words and stories have been my most constant source of pleasure, wonder and staver offer of boredom. And I want to share it all—the good, the bad and the utterly enchanting.

Starting with A Man on the Inside.

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